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I have shared in the past that the good ministry leaders where I met the man who invited me to Burundi July 04, asked me not to return before my April 05 trip where we began making disciples with our first two house churches. Then they told me I had been dis-fellowshipped from their meetings when I visited with Bienvenu August 06, although they never initiated any effort to tell me the reason.
I’ve spent many hours making calls, emails, visits etc, trying to bring communication toward reconciliation, because I love these guys & want them to be blessed from loving Jesus by loving me & originally I longed for support & encouragement from many friends in the group. Finally I have a BREAKTHROUGH!
This leader that I was in my 2nd conscious house church experience with, before either of us were much involved in the other ministry wrote this letter to me:
Greg,
After asking some questions, reading your letters, and really trying to hear your heart, I would like to simply say that I’m sorry. I’m sorry for not taking more time to talk with you back when you needed it. I’m sorry for speaking to you back then in a way that was unclear and that didn’t portray the love of the Lord to you. I’m sorry that for whatever reasons, we never had the relationship that God intended.
Can you forgive me? Would you please pray for me that in the future, I would be the example of Christ that I should be to my family, friends, unbelievers and even my enemies. - James 5.16 My heart for you is that God will completely fill you with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding, that He would continue to work in you the glorious riches of humility, meekness and love, and that He would cause you, as a man of God, to walk in the fullness of the measure of the stature of Christ.
Many Blessings,
My friend’s name. I won’t share with so many people.
I’m gradually getting reconnected with old friends & God is fulfilling His word to me that this time in the USA would not be like before. I recently have exchanged email from a close friend that was out of touch for about 7 years, now meet regularly with the first brother I more or less discipled in what we didn’t know was a house church 25 years ago have visited an old friend in prison twice, & now am reconciled to the brother who wrote that letter. Counting me, 3 of the four that are closest are leading house church ministry & the brother I met with 25 yrs ago, has said our meetings are house church & he wants to continue them. Plus the brother I’m now reconciled with shares a mostly good experience of house church with me from about 6-7 years ago.
I don’t feel lonely at all & I have more fellowship now in the USA than I’ve had in a lot of years. Also less time & financial pressure than every other return trip from Africa.
We’re also learning from problems, mistakes & surprises (EVERYTHING)
We’ve had a recent problem with leadership in Goma. My wife has been actually nearly worn out with dealing with it, but really it is good for her/us together.
Her good friend & ministry partner Gabriel, has unexplainably departed from the practical part of our vision. Sometimes he is saying one thing but doing another. In helping her register the ministry with the government, he changed the documents to describe a traditional church building & organization & made my wife very tired, as she had to go back to change things back to making disciples in “simple church” to ensure the government would allow multiple meetings in homes, which is a real touchy issue in Burundi, because of a home based resist-the-government cult they had.
Plus she had to go to him to try to resolve the issue & talk to many other leaders about how our vision is very different from traditional churches. It is difficult to see a good friend & leader pulling in a different direction, to the point that a faithful disciple (his own mother) doesn’t understand what has happened to him.
But this is encouraging to Providence, because after talking to the leaders they have all said we are with you, not with Gabriel. & she is learning important lessons from this that are needed, since she will be spending much time away from Goma, traveling with me North, South, East, & West. Although not being able to come with me was like the agony of death in her soul, she told me, “it is good that I was here to take care of all these challenges” & like wise much has been accomplished in the USA element of several businesses that support us & I have had lots of time to make progress, with no wife to spend time with.
It is good for all of us to be reminded how we depend on God when we make all sorts of mistakes. We have both learned that our mate can trust the wrong person, but that God stands with us no matter what the results.
You’ll read below that Emanuel has disappeared with my printer & actually I lost a lot of electronics I sent him to sell, because I trusted him too quickly. But it’s good for me to learn that not every person I connect with will be like my wonderful experience with Bienvenu & David Saku who have been so honest, faithful & in full agreement with me, though free to give me direction in matters of culture & so forth.
I’d rather learn now than when I have 10 or 20 national leaders which I’m sure will happen in the future. I’m really happy to see my wife thankful for things she did not want & I’m amazed by how patient & peaceful I feel, working alone, sleeping alone, & waiting for provision for many important matters.
Really everything is good & nothing bad happens to us, if you are humble, thankful, & fully persuaded that what you become through all of life is more important than what you accomplish.
I sometimes wonder why God didn’t save me from losing so much personal investment in what I sent to Emanuel, but I realize it was a small loss in the big picture & God showed His power to provide all that is needed, by saving money I didn’t know I had for over 3 yrs, to help me take the trip that advanced our work in Congo & gave me a wonderful wife & amazing provision & love with my new Mama na Baba (Mom & Daddy).
Lots of things have benefits that we just don’t know at the time. I visited an old friend’s church 2-3 times & enjoyed the worship, but was disappointed that like most American churches, very few asked my name & no one called or invited me over for a meal & I just sat watching the preacher preach, which is not what I want to do.
But I did meet a young man who does auto work & he just fixed my 3-4 quart-a-week oil leak & replaced my dead window washer pump, all for $50 at a time that was convenient for me. That’ll pay off in a couple months & maybe avoid an accident caused by a dirty windsheild.
I had a great talk with David Saku today & discussing the situation in Goma I got his input, which convinced me we need to teach about the dangers of traditional thinking that affect people you don’t think it will. All of us learn if we are humble enough to share our mistakes & weaknesses.
In the process of my last effort to make progress with those ministry leaders I found out from one of the members there how we can avoid really high customs taxes by registering our ministry in Rwanda.
7 February 2008 Good news by phone to Africa & progress in the USA.
I’ve had a wonderful time sharing & praying with Bienv & my wife on her phone while he was there Tues-Wed to teach her English & help with many other things. I now pay the lowest rate, 14 cents/min, to Africa that I’ve ever paid calling a mobile phone. He went with her to the home where I stayed and left Air-Conditioning tools, the Epson Flat-top with feed printer, copier, etc that I took in my luggage, & some low cost personal items, I don’t need here. I was relieved that they found most of the items, since Emanuel took the printer without permission & refused to return it. You have not heard much news from Rwanda, since he has disappeared, after I told him I would report him to the police if he didn’t return it to my wife. I do think he had a good heart, but began to admonish him, when I saw that he was not careful to tell the truth & invented some stories to avoid problems. I do believe that he oversaw 68 house churches truthfully, because when there was no increase for weeks that is what he would tell me. When I am there we will find the house churches & rebuild the relationships using more trustworthy leaders. But now we have more churches in D.R. Congo than in Rwanda. Although I lost some personal investment with Emanuel no donor money was spent except $100 to buy him a phone, back when he was busy planting more churches. He was the first leader, I’ve had that has not been extremely honest & trustworthy. In the future I will test my leaders more before I trust them. But he did help me greatly getting my air-conditioning business registered & lining up more service calls for me to do on my next trip. I have talked to that customer directly & know his contact info & location.
When I prayed with Bienv & my wife on the phone yesterday I felt the most anointing I’ve felt in months. He was feeling tired & had a recurring eye problem, probably due to not enough rest & frequent computer use. I could hear him smiling as he told me how peaceful & strengthened he felt.
She just told me today she has gotten a PO Box in Kigali & has found a real nice house for $130/mo with real working water & a toilet so nice she said I could eat off of itJ. Her mother told her she will send us money for the computer & printer she sold in Kinshasa, the capital, which some we will use for the new house, & the customs fees for the next shipment, & the rest sent to me to buy new products they can sell.
We also have good news that the 2 printers I sent with a good book did arrive as promised in about 9 days, but the post office could not find them till she brought a scanned & emailed US Post office receipt a month later. Next time we’ll send that right away.
She’ll take 1 of them to her Aunt tomorrow in Goma, to get to our Mama in Kinshasha to sell.
This weekend a computer, I bought will arrive with the camera-phone for Burundi & my wife has a buyer for that computer waiting. Next week she gets 3 cameras her mother has buyers for with another printer to sell. We are praying for the money to buy 50 already sold flash disks (on sale) because my business is slow & I’ve run short on money. All the profits will be used to reinvest or support our ministry expenses in Africa.
Naye Lia kwa Mapenzi na Furaha,…
or
He Who Weeps with Love & Joy, for the Beautiful African Bride of Christ
(Known in the past as) Greg Cunningham
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